Thursday, October 7, 2010

RS Meeting With Shawni Pothier

The guest speaker was a mother from our Highland Stake. Her name is Shawni Pothier and she is the mother of 5 and also the co-author to the book, The Secrets of Motherhood.

Shawni came prepared with notes and 5 ways she felt could help us in our everyday life of mothering, but also asked questions to the sisters that were there and allowed a lot of discussion to take place. We learned so much listening to those heart felt comments from women who have already raised their children and to those who still have toddlers and newborns in their arms. It was refreshing to hear so many encouraging words and inspiring ideas.. thanks to all of you that attended and for the spirit you brought!!

5 Things Shawni felt would help us as we mother, grandmother, and mentor God's children:

1. HAVE A PLAN
- a great place to start is by writing a family motto, or one sister talked about a Title of Liberty they wrote for their family. Map out what your family stands for and who you are as a family.

2. CHERISH THE MOMENT
- remember to look for and appreciate our children, even in the simple activities and moments. Some of the best memories are just being together in ordinary life settings.

3. DON'T COMPARE YOURSELF WITH OTHERS
-nothing takes the joy out of mothering more than comparing ourselves.
-we were given our children for a reason don't try to be like others, just be your best self!
-God loves us all and wants us to be who he sent us here to be.

4. SHARE THE WORK BURDEN
-PRINT
5. REMEMBER THAT THEY ARE CHILDREN OF GOD
-Isaiah 41:11 remember God's arms are always open and reaching for us, they are His children and He will help us.

It was an inspiring night! We were reminded to make God apart of our daily lives as we strive to raise His children in righteousness. There are so many good things to be bombarded with as mothers, so we need to remember to take it to the Lord and ask him if this is what HE wants for our children and our families, He will answer and guide us.

You are all wonderful and we look forward to seeing you at our next RS actvity meeting on NOVEMBER 9th, 7PM!! YOU WILL BE GRATEFUL YOU WERE THERE!! :)